It doesn't really matter, cuz it's mostly for me anyway. 

So I have this message board that I technically own.  I logged on tonight to snag a couple recipes that I don't want to lose, but as of yesterday I'm divorcing myself from it.  One of the members is having some issues - long story, not gonna go into details.  At any rate, she shared those details with me and I didn't think it necessary to share them with anyone else, because after all, it's her business and her story.  Fast forward a couple weeks.  People are wondering if she's okay and no one is saying anything except that they hope so and they're sending good wishes, etc.  Out of the blue, someone decides to post all the details.  Umm, why? 

So I said, "why are you posting this?  Do you have her permission?"  One word answer - yes.  And when did you get this permission, since the person in question is without phone service for 30 days or so.  Oh, before.  Umm, then why did you wait so long to share this information?  Oh, oops, sorry, my bad.

No, dammit, it's not that easy.   I got pissed and said, um, this is not your story to post.  But but but......it's for her support!  Hey, got a functioning brain cell?  She can't READ THE BOARD!  SHE HAS NO COMPUTER ACCESS!  Okay, I said, "I talked to her and she didn't say anything about sharing this story."  So now it's all about me being upset that I got left out or some happy horseshit and hey, JACKASSES - it's not ABOUT ME!  It's about the fact that you posted something that wasn't yours to share! 

Nobody seems to get it and the one who couldn't agree more is a pantload and that's all I gotta say about that.

Good Lord, is it that hard to figure out?

So screw 'em all. I'll email the person whose confidence was betrayed and hopefully she'll understand that I'm not upset with her.  And that it wasn't me who betrayed her trust.